A lot of information, and a big THANK YOU!!!

First off I want to send out a huge THANK YOU to a good friend Talonnie Prince, who offered some help in trying to find information about Harry Kinder. She was able to find a lot of really good info for me. She found an obit, and a step daughters name. So Talonnie, thank you so very much for your willingness to help me out. I appreciate it so very much, and owe you big time.

With this info, I was able to track down Harry's step son-in-law who was willing to talkt o me a little bit about Harry's life, and was also able to give me Gail's (the stepdaughter) phone number. I am now just waiting for a call back from Gail.

Here is his Obituary.
Deceased Name: HARRY H. KINDER
A memorial service will be at 11 a.m. May 5, 1994, at Lincoln Memorial Park and Funeral Home . Mr. Kinder died May 2, 1994, of causes related to age. He was 81.
He was born Dec. 16, 1912, in Wabash, Ill., and moved to Louisville, Ky., as a child. He also lived in California and Washington before moving to Oregon.
His wife, Ruth, died in 1992. He worked as a cement finisher with various construction firms and retired in 1977.
Surviving are his daughter, Vidagail Holmes of Troutdale; numerous brothers and sisters; and two grandchildren.
Disposition will be by cremation.
Remembrances: favorite charity. This is the only picture I have of him. Hopefully his step daughter share any she has.
Stay Tuned, hopefully more news to follow.

Lincoln Cemetery & the Prortland Zoo

On our way home from the be beach we stopped off in Portland to see if we could find the grave of my dad's birth father. My aunt had told us the cemetery name, and I figured it would be just a matter of asking for the plat number, and we would be done. Well on Saturday afternoon we pulled into Portland, and by the time we were able to find the Cemetery, the offices had closed. So Ray being the wonderful person that he is said we would stay until Monday when the offices re-opened so that we could find Harry's grave site. Well, that left all day Sunday with nothing to do. So, we decided since we had been promising the kids we'd take them to the Zoo for a year now. So Sunday morning we headed for the Portland Zoo. It is a huge Zoo, and everyone was able to find their favorite animal, and spend time watching them. Jake and Ray quickly decided that the Sea Lions were their favorite. Ellie fell in love with the Sea Otter, (there was a baby one there), and I fell in love with the two very big and very beautiful Polar Bears. We enjoyed the zoo very much, and had lots of fun spending time as a family.

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So Monday morning we hurried to the Lincoln Cemetery so that we could get the info we needed to find Harry's grave. But, to my disappointment found that he is not buried there. I was very sad about his. The lady their was very kind and gave me a list of 44 Cemeteries in the Portland area that I can call. So we don't know where he is buried, and I have a big job ahead of me. I have called 30 of the 44 to no avail, but I refuse to give up, I will find him. But I just feel bad that we stayed in the Oregon 2 extra days waiting to see his grave. At least the Zoo was fun, and we have good memories of that .

Tagged

My friend Emily tagged me a while ago, and I decided why not take a break from cleaning, and do the tag so here goes-

8 different things

8 T.V. shows that I love:
The Office
Scrubs
Project Runway
Grey's Anatomy
ER
Desperate Housewives
Big Bang Theory
Cold Case

8 Favorite Restaurants:
Subway
Golden Corral
China Gardens
Olive Garden
can't think of any others

8 Things that happened yesterday:
Got Ellie and Jake off to school
Did some housework
Went and watched the city burn down a 100 year old school (got some cool pics of it)
sat outside and visited with Amie while our kids played for a bit
Did some housework, and laundry
Searched the net for info on Harry Kinder
Made dinner for my family
Went to bed (I know I have a boring life)

8 Things I look forward to:
Fall
Soccer to come to an end
My Bathroom and Rays office to be completed
Christmas
General Conference
My back yard to be done
Getting Rays scores in the mail
Getting my blurb book finished

8 Things I love about Fall:
The leaves falling to the ground
All the pretty colors
Going for Sunday drives looking at all the leaves changing colors
Cooler weather
Halloween
Thanksgiving
Fall storms with thunder and lighting
Playing in the leaves

8 Things on my wish list:
For my birds to find a good home
A new car (we are tired of having a van)
For my kitchen to always stay clean and my laundry always be done
For my grey hair to magically disappear and never return. (It makes me feel old :( and I don't want to be yet.)
For the hair on my legs to stop growing.
A new cell phone, mine broke and now it hurts to talk on it.
To find that perfect place to do my kids fall pics outside and the perfect day.
A good nights sleep

8 People I tag:
I am tagging those who want to take on the challenge of doing this tag. Good luck and enjoy!!

Ocean Shores Washington Vacation

Our family took a much needed vacation to the beach last week, and enjoyed every minute of our time. We left on Tuesday the 16th, and returned home on Tuesday the 23rd. We stayed in Ocean Shores Washington, and loved being right on the beach in a small little quiet town. One of the reasons it was quiet is because we waited until the summer season was over so that it would not be so busy or as expensive as it would have been in the summer. We fell in love with the area, and have even talked about making it the place we would love to retire to. The temperatures were great the entire time, and although the water was cold Ellie and Jake still chose to play in the water. One older lady said as she was passing by that they reminded her of her first time at the beach. By the time the kids got out of the water they had blue lips, and goose bumps all over. We had the best of both worlds Ray and I, he loves the Jetty, where the water beats up against the rocks. He loves the power it brings, and the force you feel as the water crashes against the boulders. I had the sandy beaches, where you could walk forever searching for beautiful sand dollars, and sea shells of which we found lots and lots of both. While in Ocean Shores we found several cool parks with playground equipment that we had never seen before, and the kids had a blast maneuvering their way through. We even had the chance of seeing sea lions out in the water. They never got close enough to get full body pictures, but I was able to get some descent head shots of several. One day while at the Jetty we watched the Coast Guard move in on a boat that we later were told was sinking. I got some pictures of it, and talked of how awesome it was to the guy who let us check it out with his binoculars, and then had to apologize for sounding so cold. He assured me he was not offended and thought it was kinda cool to see as well. The slide show that I have attached has comments made on each picture if you want to read them just click play. We had a great time, and were not sure we were ready to come home when the weak came to an end. We were able to see lots of dear who have made this small coastal town there home, and also had fun feeding the seagulls. Both kids were excited to get hoodie sweat shirts to wear, and Ray was able to find an old peace of drift wood he brought home with him along with a tupperware dish full of sand. I brought home lots of sand dollars and sea shells. We are all looking forward for our Vacation to Ocean Shores next year.

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Tuesday Tell All

Home Sweet Home

To me, Home Sweet Home is a place where you feel like you are safe, a place where you can kick of your shoes and feel like you belong. We have moved several times in our nine plus years of marriage, and each time with each place we have lived I have felt like I was not just somewhere, but home. Right after we got married Ray sold his small home in Hurricane, and we moved to Garland Ut. We lived in an older home with lots of creeks, and I wondered how we could ever feel like it was ours being so far from family, and not knowing anyone in the area. Well the moment pictures were hung, and beds were made we felt like we were home. We left Garland after a year, and moved back to Hurricane. Again we quickly felt like we were home, but had the added bonus of having family around. A year after moving to Hurricane, we moved to Cedar City. Our place of residence was a very small 2 bedroom apartment, and fit 2 people and an office very snugly. This time it took a bit longer to feel like we were home, it didn't feel like we could kick our shoes off with our being scolded. We were not allowed to hang pictures, and the landlord and his wife let us know quite often that it was their place and we were just tenants. Then we found that with sticky hooks, and locked doors we were able to feel at home because we were able to hang our pictures, and keep the landlord out. Well after Ray did a year of School at SUU, and was ready to start trucking, we decided that it was time to move North. We ended up moving to Ogden Ut. We found a place right off Washington and 14th street. It was a busy part of town, and as hard as I tried, I had a very hard time feeling safe. I spent a lot of time alone while Ray was out on the truck, and spent a lot of nights double and triple checking the door before backing up the stairs to bed. Crazy I know, but it is just the way it had to be. I did however end up falling in love with the place, and feeling very much like it was a home sweet home before we moved after being there for 2 years. After Ogden, we moved to Brigham City into a three bedroom 1 bath apartment until we could get settled and used to Rays new job at the Hospital. The apartment was cozy, but the land lady was a mean as a rabid dog. She did not like me at all, but seemed to think the world of Ray. So after a bit we cozied right into living in Brigham, and found our little place to be ours. After a year in Brigham, we decided that the place we loved the most was the place we started out, and bought our home here in Tremonton. We fell in love with our home the first time we saw it, and felt that as long as we loved this home as much as we had loved our rentals it could be our own Home Sweet Home. So this is where we are, and have been here 3 years. We love the town, and the small town feel it provides for our growing family. We invite all who pass by to come kick off your shoes and visit for a while. The door is always open to the ones we love.

*Our Kitty Fred * Nov-04 / Sept-08 R.I.P

At the end of last week we noticed that our cat Fred was sick. At first we thought maybe he just had a cold or something, then he started to get worse. Well, on Wednesday night we were afraid that he would end up dying while we were asleep, and so the next morning we took him to the Animal Hospital for some tests. It turned out that his bladder was engorged from some kidney/bladder stones. The Vet tried to catheterize him with no success, but was able to drain his bladder. They wanted to keep him for three days with an IV going in, and a Cathe coming out to see if he would be able too recover or if his Kidneys were shot. Thursday when the kids got out of school we went seen him, and let the kids pet him, and then Ray and I went on Friday after the kids went to school, and then once again when the kids got home from school. Well, yesterday marked day number three, and after a call from the Vet, Ray decided it was time to head back in for a closer look. When he got there our poor Fred was so sick he couldn't hardly even lift his head, but did manage to move it into Ray's hand. Ray waited while the Vet did an ultra sound which showed more stones in the bladder. Fred was barley alive at this point, and Ray and the doc felt that the chance for survival was very low. So they decided the best thing to do would be to euthanize him. The Vet gave Ray a few minutes with Fred while he got the shot ready, and Ray said Fred even purred a bit, but could not open his eyes. I guess I am pretty thankful that there are Meds out there that help suffering animals to go so quickly. We are pretty sad at our house. Fred was such a good cat. He was one of a kind. We got Fred the day my great nephew Alex was born, and have loved him so much. He loved to sit on Rays books while he studied, and didn't mind at all if the kids laid on him. He loved to take baths, and would sit in the sink while we got ready for the day. He was such a part of our family, and we are going to miss him so much. Poor little Jake keeps asking if we can go to the Hospital to see Fred. We have told him several times that Fred went to live with Grandpa Westfall, but he just does not quite understand. Ellie however cried pretty hard when we told her he passed away. Ray and I both shed some tears as well. I told Ray this is it for us, I don't want anymore animals. It makes it to hard when you get attached to them and then have to watch them suffer like Fred did. The picture above is of Fred when he was a little kitty. I unfortunately do not have any of him as a big cat. I do on my cell phone, just not on my computer. He was a handsome cat. White with soft orange stripes on his tail and orange tips on his ears, and face. Big blue eyes, and white whiskers, with one black one on each side. Good Bye Fred, we are going to miss you very much, and will always love you. You were our kitty kitty, and a part of our family.