Promise me you will always remember that you are stronger than you seem, smarter than you think, and loved more than you ever imagined.



Wednesday, February 11, 2009

A long, long time and post

I know it has been about a month since I last posted. A lot has been going on with our life, and now that we are finally settled again, I am ready to jump on the blog wagon. I think?
As most of you know, we headed to Southern Utah in October to get away from some girls who had been being really mean to Ellie at school. The sad thing is that they were girls from our ward as well. Ellie was having a hard time dealing with this, and so we decided to try life in Southern Utah. We unfortunately only lasted a couple of months. It was really hard living away from Ray, and Ellie was not doing as well in school as what we had hoped. So, at the beginning of December we decided to come back home. We decided that we would just keep a closer eye on Ellie. It is probably what we should have done in the first place, but when you have a child that is in need you do anything and everything you can to protect them. So, here we are back in Northern Utah, and loving being a whole family again. I have tried to keep a closer eye on Ellie, and the (mean girls) and hope that these girls will soon grow out of their cruel ways. I am so proud of her and her willingness to forgive those who have been so mean to her.

Ellie was placed at the top of her class in reading, and loves to read a book from beginning to end all in the same day. I was hoping this day would come, and am glad that her glasses have helped her as much as they have. She was excited for the new year to be hear so that she could do cartwheels again. After she broke her arm the The Dr. told her to wait until the new year before trying any so that her arm would have time to heal completely. I think she tried one on the first day of 09' and has been getting better everyday.

Jake was glad to be back in his old school, and has quickly moved back to being the best singer on the bus. :) We are hoping he will be ready for Kindergarten in the fall, and are working with him everyday to be the best Jake we know he can be. He will soon be turning 5, and reminds us everyday that he is almost a big, big boy. He is such a tease to anyone who is around him, but is also one of the most loving kids you will ever meet. He loves to snuggle, and smooch anytime he can.

As for Ray, I think he is happy to have us home. I do think he got kind of used to having the house to himself, but he acts happy to have us here, and we sure are happy to be home again.
I didn't do a Christmas Card this year, or letter or even pictures. I apologize for not sending them out. I guess I got overwhelmed with just being, so please forgive me. I promise to do better next year.

We got a new cat, his name is Skeeter. Jake proudly named him, and we think it fits perfectly. I know we said after our cat Fred passed away that we would not do it again, but we found that our house was lonely without the purring of a cat around. So, when Stephanie had a kitty show up at her door without a home, we decided we would keep him. I think he is one of the best cats we have had so far. Fred was a good cat for Ray, but this cat is good for us all. He loves to spend time with all of us (not just Ray) and that is what we love most.
We have had lots of snow this winter, and have even had a few bugs that have left us home in our pajamas for a day or two. We have had fun building a few snow men and women, and have also watched them melt as days have gotten warm. We had watched almost all of our snow melt when we were hit with a snow storm the other day that left us with enough snow to build a little snow boy for Jake's school assignment. Below are some random pictures that I have taken over the last little while.
Skeeter loves playing in boxes, and sat in this shoe box for probably 30 minutes before finally getting out.Here is a picture of Jake and Ellie with Jake's little snowman.An up close picture of our handsome kitty cat Skeeter.Aren't these girls beautiful. I am so proud of them and their accomplishments in life.My kids posing in their new PJ's Grandpa and Grandma Oliphant bought them.I think Ellie is Skeeters favorite person in the whole wide world. He loves to snuggle with her.Jake's snowman he built for a school assignment. He did it almost all by himself. CUTE HUH?Can you find the smiley bug in the leaves?


Here's Jake posing with his very own "REAL COOL, & TOUGH" snowman.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Tagged by Brandi

1. Started your own blog? YES
2. Slept under the stars? YES
3. Played in a band? NO
4. Visited Hawaii? NO
5. Watched a meteor shower? YES
6. Given more than you can afford to charity? YES
7. Been to Disneyland? NO
8. Climbed a mountain? YES
9. Held a praying mantis? YES
10. Sang a solo? YES
11. Bungee jumped? SORT OF
12. Visited Paris? NO
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea? NEXT TO THE SEE
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch? YES
15. Adopted a child? YES
16. Had food poisoning? YES
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty? NO
18. Grown your own vegetables? YES
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France? NO
20. Slept overnight on a train? NO
21. Sluffed school? YES (Don't tell my kids)
22. Hitch hiked? YES
23. Taken a sick day when your not ill? YES
24. I don't know what happend to 24?
25. Held a lamb? YES
26. Gone skinny dipping? IN MY BATHTUB
27. Run a Marathon? NOPE
28. Ridden a gondola in Switzerland? NOPE
29. Seen a total eclipse? YES
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset? MANY TIMES
31. Hit a home run? YUP, BEEN MARRIED TO HIM FOR ALMOST 10 YEARS
32. Been on a cruise? NOPE
33. Seen Niagra Falls in perso? NOPE
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors? NOPE
35. Seen Amish country? YES ( VERY BEAUTIFUL)
36. Taught yourself a new language? YES PIG LATIN
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied? DO YOU NEED MONEY TO BE SATISFIED?
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person? NOPE
39. Gone rock climbing? A FEW TIMES
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David? NOT IN PERSON
41. Sung karaoke? A TIME OR TWO
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt? YUP, NOT AS COOL AS I HOPED IT WOULD BE
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant? YES
44. Visited Africa? NOPE
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight? YES
46. Been transported in an ambulance? UNFORTUNATELY
47. Had your portrait painted? YUP BY MY KIDS
48. Gone deep sea fishing? NOPE
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person? NO
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris? NO
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling? NOPE MAYBE SOMEDAY
52. Kissed in the rain? YUP
53. Played in the mud? LOTS OF TIMES, IT'S FUN
54. Gone to a drive-in theater? OF COURSE
55. Been in a movie? A HOME MADE ONE
56. Visited the Great Wall of China? NO
57. Started a business? GOING TO ONEDAY
58. Taken a martial arts class? NOPE NEVER
59. Visited Russia? NOPE, MAYBE SOMEDAY
60. Served at a soup kitchen? NOT YET
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies? NO BUT ELLIE WOULD LOVE TO
62. Gone whale watching? SOMEDAY
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma? YES
65. Gone sky diving? NO
66. Visited a Nazi concentration camp? NO
67. Bounced a check? NO
68. Flown in a helicopter? NO
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy? YES
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial? NOT YET
71. Eaten Caviar? YA, IN HIGH SCHOOL
72. Pieced a quilt? TRIED, DIDN'T TURN OUT REAL WELL
73. Stood in Times Square? NO
74. Toured the Everglade? NO
75. Been fired from a job? NOPE
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London? NO
77. Broken a bone? YUP, MY FOOT AND MY FINGER
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle? NO
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person? YA, A TIME OR TWO
80. Published a book? NPE
81. Visited the Vatican? NO
82. Bought a brand new car? IT WAS NEW TO ME
83. Walked in Jerusalem? NNO
84. Had your picture in the newspaper? WHEN I WAS LITTLE, A TIME OR TWO
85. Read the entire Bible? YES
86. Visited the White House? I HAVE VISITED A WHITE HOUSE, BUT NOT THE ONE IN DC
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating? NOPE
88. Had chickenpox? A TIME OR TWO
89. Saved someone’s life? I DON'T THINK SO, BUT AL SILVIS THINKS I SAVED HIS.
90. Sat on a jury? NO
91. Met someone famous? YES
92. Joined a book club? NO
93. Lost a loved one? TWO MANY TO COUNT
94. Had a baby? HAVE SEVERAL
95. Seen the Alamo in person? NOPE
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake? WALKED ALONG THE BEACH
97. Been involved in a law suit? DON'T THINK SO
98. Owned a cell phone? YES
99. Been stung by a bee? SEVERAL
100. One cavity or less? I WISH
I tag, EMILY GREAVES, TRACEY JAMES, & KELLIE SPENDLOVE
Now come on ladies don't let me down here....

Friday, January 9, 2009

Alexander Pierce Luff (Flashback Friday)

I know I have talked about this handsome little guy before, and you have all heard me talk about him more than once, but he would have celebrated his 4Th birthday on the 18Th of December, and all though I was not near my computer to talk about him or leave a memory of him I was thinking of him just the same. I remember the day he was born very clearly. Ray and I were on our way to Ogden for a day of shopping, dinner and a movie. We were on the freeway when we got a call from our nephew Cliff telling us that Courtney had gone in labor their in Rexburg. We took the next exit, turned around and headed North, hoping we would make it in time for this beautiful babies birth. We made it to the hospital as Cliff's good friend Sid was leaving with his wife, and they told us that she had not yet delivered. Some time later she delivered, and what an amazing spirit this boy brought with him. What a sweet little boy. Ray and I felt very blessed to be able to be present when he was born. Then came the yellow skin, and a sick little Alex. Ray and I were sitting at home and got a call from a very worried Cliff and Courtney. They explained that the doctor had suggest they take Alex into Primary Children's Hospital, and they asked us if we could help them get there. We told them we would be waiting on the freeway on ramp for them and I remember praying that he would be OK. I remember praying to my Father in Heaven to bless Cliff and Courtney with the strength and Courage of Heleman's Army. It is something they needed as they were given the news that their precious Alex had Biliary Atresia, and would have a hard road ahead with surgeries, and pain. I remember more than once going with Courtney to the Hospital because of a sick baby, and with surgeries. I remember one day while Alex was in the Hospital, I was in the back with Courtney and a bunch of alarms and beepers started going off around Alex, I panicked and ran to have Cliff go back to be with her. I quickly slipped into the bathroom to catch my breath and pray to a loving Father for continued strength which I could only imagine they must need. I felt like my chest was collapsing, and he was not even my baby. I remember the day I woke up crying, sure that it would be the day they would be saying goodbye to their sweet angel. They had been in the hospital with him for quite some time and their family was their with them holding and loving him. I remember thinking to myself that Cliff and Courtney must have done something right in Heaven for our Father in Heaven to entrust them with one of his choice children. I stood amazed at his funeral at how composed they were, so strong and full of a faith like non other. I fell in love with Courtney the very first time I met her, but never knew how much my love for her would grow as I watched her go from just a niece-in-law to someone I not only admired, but was in awe of. She has taught me so much about trusting, loving, and honoring our Fathers Will. She is one of the most amazing people you could ever meet, and she is family. (how lucky am I) I was talking to a good friend of mine and I was telling her about Cliff and Courtney, and about their journey with Alex and she said that she would love to meet them. She said she was envious of me because it is not everyday when you get to talk with angels, and in her opinion that is exactly what these two were. I told her I imagine quite often that day when Cliff and Courtney are in Heaven and are reunited with Alex, and he thanks them for helping him full fill the earthly mission he agreed upon taking to earn his spot in the Celestial Kingdom, and how wonderful it will be to see him whole and well. What a reunion it will be. I love you Cliff and Court, thank for being who you are. Happy 4Th Birthday Alex, I love you!!!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Flash Back Friday

This Holiday Season I have been thinking lots about my Grandpa. He passed away in 2000, and I have missed him so very much. He was the worlds best Grandpa. He always went out of his way to make you feel like you were his all time favorite grandchild, and loved to serenade you and dance with you. One of his biggest loves were his grandchildren and great grandchildren. I love this picture below of my grandpa with Jackie's youngest Jaden. The look you see on his face below was the same look you always seen when he was around, especially if you were his grand or great grandchild. He adored us all, and made sure we all knew just how (precious) we were to him. As I think about his posterity and it's growth, I can't help but imagine the huge smile he must have on his face. I will never forget the love he had for me, and the memories he left behind for me to Cherish. This next picture makes me laugh all over again. This was taken at Grandpas 80th Birthday Party. We made this giant cake, and then my uncle Jerrol jumped out of it. I remember how surprised my Grandpa was, and how much he laughed. He had a good sense of humor, which I loved. He knew how to have fun, and he wasn't afraid to do so. Check out that sweet face of his. I love you grandpa, thanks for the memories. Merry Christmas.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Flash Back Friday.....

A friend and I were chatting the other day about our blogs, and the things that we want to put on our blogs for memories sake, and the fact that we want to make them into books. She said her sister-in-law has a Flash Back Friday on her blog, and the more we talked about it, the more I liked this idea. I like that she puts a picture on her blog and tells the story behind it, or tells a good memory she has of the person or persons that are in the picture. She said she doesn't always do pictures either. She sometimes just tells something about someone who has been on her mind a lot during that week. I thought this was such an awesome idea being that I have lots and lots of pictures I would love to post, and lots of memories I would love to share, (especially with my kids and with Ray) so I am jumping on board the Flash Back Friday wagon.

Tagged by Brandi

A - Attached or single?Married, with two beautiful kiddos!
B-Best Friend(s)? Ray
C- Cake or Pie? Cherry Pie
D- Day of Choice? The Wednesday - Tuesday that Ray is in town.
E- Essential Item? Olay body quench lotion. (try it you'll love it) and my Carmex
F- Favorite clothing item? Jeans
G- Greatest Ambition in Life? For my kids to be good kids at home and out in the world.
H- Hometown? Raised in Hurricane, My home's in Tremonton, residing in LaVerkin for 6mths
I- Indulgence? Diet Pepsi.
J- Jan. or July? January of course
K- Kids? yup, two of the best...
L- Life isn't complete without? My hubby by my side.
M- Movie? Lake House, The best two Years,
N-Number of bros and sisters: 6 older sisters, 1 younger brother, plus their loving spouses which I consider to be siblings, then I have 2 bro-in-laws and three sis in-laws on Rays side and their spouses that I consider siblings as well.
O-Oranges or Apples? Oranges
P- Phobia or Fear? Someone taking my kids because they think they can.
Q- Quote? I am who I am, and who I am is me.
R- Reason to Smile? My hubby is home and my kids are not fighting. :) good times!
S- Season of Choice? Fall, all the trees change color, and winter is just around the corner.
T- TV Show? Big Bang Theory, The Office
U- Unknown Fact about Me? I'm allergic to Cantaloupe
V-Vegetable- Spinach!!
W- Worst habit? Biting my nails
X- X-ray or Ultrasound? Never had an ultra sound, but have had many X-rays, so I'll choose it
Y- Your favorite food? Chinese, Seafood and Italian.
Z- Zodiac Sign? Gemini
Now I Tag Emily G, Shelise M, Heidi W, Kim W, and Melissa N. Have fun girls!

I Am Thankful For

I Am Thankful For
30-The opportunity to serve others
29-The day spent with Ray and the kids
28-Leftovers
27-The Christmas music I get to start listening to
26-Cartoons, they seem to help a sick boy not wine so much.
25-Family, both near and far.
24-Whitney (my venting partner)
23-The FREEDOM I so often take for granted
22-My Eternal Marriage
21-Sisters who are also my best friends
20- The spirit that comes with being thankful
19-My Dishwasher
18-My Licence (love ya Brandi)
17-A Daughter who tries to please
16-Sunday dinner at Mikes house
15-Daddy Daughter Dates
14-A Happy, Smiling Son
13-Music
12-Carmex
11-Nap Time
10-My Washer and Dryer
9-Tylenol and Tissue
8- Sisters, who are also my friends
7- My Cameras'
6- A nice warm bed
5- Comfy Tennies
4- The outporing of love from family
3- My Kids
2- My Loving Husband
1- The Gospel